The christian woman is young and old, single and married, raising a family with a spouse and as a single parent. We have many role and many stages in our lives. A christian woman is a daughter of the king. Whatever roles she is living, the most basic premise of her life is that she is loved, cherished, prized and cared for by the Lord.
Until you feel whole, accepted and secure in Christ, you will be susceptible to the opinions and desires of others for your life. we need one another regardless of our particular roles. As we live for Christ, wherever that may be, we glorify Him, support one another and show the world what it is supposed to look like to be a woman of God.
Be only what the Lord requires of you and let those who oppose this take it up with Him.